Sedikit Nasihat dari Tante O

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away ==> bener bangetssss

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay ==> yup setuju berat

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior ==> ini bener, tapi kok susah ya utk ngga bikin excusess buat orang yang kita cintai

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache ==> 'duh malah sering tidak menghiraukan intuition ini nih...ayo berubah-berubah...

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be ==> ngga pernah trying to change but I knew that I'm in a wrong relationship.

Slower is better ==> this true

Never live your life for a man before you find whatmakes you truly happy ==> setuju

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends" ==> aduuuuuhhhhhh masih cinta gimana???

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend ==> setuju

Don't settle ==> justru kepingin tante...

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is ==> hmmmm iya yah???

Don't stay because you think "it will get better" ==> iya bener nih, tapi wanita emang kadang suka banget deh yang menderita2 gitu atas nama cinta

You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better ==> sip sip

The only person you can control in a relationship is you ==> iya tapi kadang dia keras kepala...

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women ==> weits bener banget ini mah emang yang paling dihindari...menebar benih dimana2...

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? ==> iya bener...

Always have your own set of friends separate from him Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up ==> yup harus punya sekumpulan power puff girls

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later ==> iye udah kejadian nih

You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within. ==> betul, emang kl dia udah pny bad habit bertahun2 lamanya ngga mungkin dia merubahnya sekejap mata

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a betterjob.Do not make him into a quasi-god. ==> betul ini juga yang selalu mama gua bilangin, kasarnya, jangan ampe ngemis dah ama dia

He is a man, nothing more nothing less. ==> kl rada kemayu berarti banci he3x

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. ==> ihiks... no coment

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. ==> betul

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. ==> betul

All men are NOT dogs. ==> but sometimes they behave like one :-)

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two Way street. ==> sippp deh, walaupun hard to do it

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship ==> ihiks iya iya

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. ==> iyah kata piya-piya

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right. ==> weits bener banget...

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available tohim - he takes it for granted. -Isn't this TRUE!!!!! ==> iya...

Never move into his mother's house. ==> hahaha ada juga pondok mertua indah ya

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*Keep him in your radar but get to know others. ==> iya iya...

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